I am a sub male . . . with switch tendencies. I'd like to dom, but it's never felt right to me . . . I've known I was kinky since the first grade, when the neighborhood girls and I used to take turns being tied up in raucous games of . . . well, let's just say cowboys and Indians. Until recently, most of my expereience has been with professional Dommes (there happen to be two exceptionally good facilities in my neck of the woods that are absolutely reasonable, well equipped, and staffed with amazing ladies). My favorite thing is to hand myself over to them, with no plan save for my hard limits (needles and blood) being avoided, and a few of my favorites mentioned. Then . . it's their choice. Not knowing what's to come next is delicious, and I've had more than a few limits expanded. Really, I love everything I've tried: electro, chastity, impact, clamps, bondage, suspension, strap on play, crossdressing, exhibitionism, humiliation, golden showers . . . really, it's all been good. I have played publicly on several occasions. Recently, I have found a relationship with a domme leaning switch who is very interested in expanding her repertoire, and honing her skills (she CLAIMS not to know how sensitive the testicles were to slapping . . . I'm not sure I buy it ._ Currently, we are apart, but she is looking forward to a time when we can visit a dungeon together, and do a joint session with me subbing, her switching, and both of us learning. Until then, I am left to my own devices -- sort of. We are still playing the long distance chastity game (which, come to think of it, means I am left to my own device.) She is always open to suggestions, btw. Looking forward to a great new board . . .
._ Currently, we are apart, but she is looking forward to a time when we can visit a dungeon together, and do a joint session with me subbing, her switching, and both of us learning. Until then, I am left to my own devices -- sort of. We are still playing the long distance chastity game (which, come to think of it, means I am left to my own device.) She is always open to suggestions, btw.