i am a teacher in Southern California. i grew up in the midwest and moved out here in 1999. i graduated high school in 1988 and am also a college graduate. i first became a civil engineer but then decided the 8 to 5 lifestyle wasn't for me. Teaching is probably harder than working in an engineering firm, however, the time off is very nice. i am married and have a child, he is adorable. i have had sub fantasies ever since i can remember, probably dating back to when i was 8 or 9 years old. Now that i think about it probably younger. my current Wife has no idea about my kinky thoughts that go through my mind. i would love to have Her someday understand and make me Her husband/slave. She is very sexy and could use that against me in a heartbeat, but She chooses not too, even though i wish She would. Maybe someday. Right now i don't think She would understand. i have no idea how to approach Her about it, so i will probably just leave it alone. i can do the Vanilla lifestyle role very well too. i just need to subsidize it with my sub fantasies when She is away or asleep.