I'm 59 and have been happily and faithfully married to my lovely wife (who happens to be the most beautiful and wonderful woman on the planet) for 16+ years. After that amount of time and at my age, there just isn't the amount of spice or pizzazz as there used to be in the sack. I've been thinking that a femdom relationship may just be the way to go.
I'vealways been a tad submissive if you considered the reat pleasure that I've always gotten by getting, back in my single & younger days, naked for my clothed girlfriends and sometimes for THEIR girlfriends by my then girlfriends' and my arrangements. An example of this could be my girlfriend expecting a friend to come over and my "accidentally" coming out of the shower, seemingly unaware of the friend's presence. Another girlfriend once told me that her sister REALLY wanted to check me out so I stood up and stripped so she could. Yet another girlfriend announced to me once that she was having a few girls over for a bridge game and she told me that I would be serving drinks and refreshments to the guests naked. I think that I had as much or more fun as the ladies and I had an atomic erection the whole tome that was caressed, rubbed and kissed quite frequently. One of the friends would take hold whenever I brought her anything.
A couple of years before I met my wife I briefly dated a very pretty and chubby (my type) young woman who worked in the local mall. The first time we were going to have sex, my dominant thought was that I wanted to be naked for HER, and I wasfor quite awhile before she undressed.
My wife doesn't know about these CFNM incidents in my past. My question is how to approach her about this. I would NOT consent to cuckolding or chastity/**** cages, but anything else really turns me on!
Or perhaps, am I just a guy who really likes being naked for clothed ladies? Or, am I a lifelong closet sub whose missed out (until now?) on a life of naked servitude to my mistress as I sported a near perpetual hardon?
Any advise would be greatly appreciated. I want to be with my wife until I'm 110!
I don't know but maybe I've been a closet sub my whole life and I missed out on a life of naked servitude with a perpetual hardon
You have to approach this from the right angle and that is to make her the centre of your life, her desires and wants must be your reason for living, it really is what you can do for her to satisfy her needs. Once you have convinced her of your intent to make her a Goddess and the benefits that she will enjoy through your submission you will hopefully, but its not guaranteed, satisfy your fantasies. any other way and you will not get anything you want. This includes many many non-sexual acts also.
