What are some really cool domination ideas that are fun and don't require alot of tools?
Once a week after school, I leave the dorms and I bring my boyfriend out to an abandoned drainage tunnel and go to town on him. And we have room to do most things its just, we can exactly bring alot "equipment" with us. What are some cool ways I could really blow off some steam?
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For quick, down & dirty, I find using small items for effective bondage always gets me going. In college I used to specifically buy purses and handbags with removable straps. I used to accessorize with scarves because they could be blindfolds. Stockings make for great wrist/ankle restraints, provided you know you can throw them out afterward (count on getting runs in them and/or cutting them off, the knots can be nasty).
Of course there are always handcuffs, which can be carried along and concealed and are easy to transport.
I know you said no tools..but those are tools that can be simple accessories or easy to take.
For no tools at all - I'm a big fan of hairpulling, pinning, roleplaying, light slapping. If you want simple but effective ways to make him squirm, blindfold and restrain him (or order him to hold still) while you take off your clothes and pleasure yourself, making him guess what you are doing specifically to which parts of your body. Men go crazy when they cannot see a woman like this...it's sheer torture.
Tease & deny always yields great results too. Make him masturbate in front of you but then stop him before he cums and tell him you want to do something else instead....
Most of all - have fun and be spontaneous. Convey to him how excited, aroused and amused you are - must sub men thrive on this kind of feedback. Enjoy yourself and the rest will come naturally!
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Akasha
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