I'll start . . . I would love to go on a sub shopping trip. The whole deal: some form of semi-intrusive, semi-obvious bondage; a submissive meal (i don't get to order, mistress feeds me, etc.); lingerie and/or sex toy shopping. Forced servitude to another woman (or ... man?) would be a bonus. What's holding me back? Well . . . primarily the idea that my kink should not be imposed on others. But, under the right circumstances? I'm in.
Good advice . . . I don't get to play as often as I would like, and I tend to want to do everything within those confines. But, smaller tasks might be more attainable.
First, I have to say we should never impose our sexual preferences on others. But there are lots of things you can do in a public way. My wife made me call ten lingerie stores and ask them if they would allow me to try on clothes in their store. Most said yes without hesitation. My wife has taken me to one of them twice and they are only too happy to see us. I have to model for her. We have also gone shopping at a Mall on a Monday- believe me, no kids, hardly any men. She took me to a make-up counter of a large store and immediately starting asking for advice for what would look good on me. The girl never blinked. I got a make over with lots of ladies watching. My wife also takes me to a beauty salon once a month to have my nails done. I have to wear my pink slave collar and the women really enjoy it. There are lots of "safe" opportunities to be shown off. I have been amazed by how many women truly enjoy seeing a male humiliated.
i would love it if my Wife became more Dominant and had me do some things like that.
What's really crazy is that i had fantasies about being forced to go into a lingere store, like a Fredricks, by a Dom/Mistress and made to buy Her things. In the meantime i would have to out my self as Her slave to the Girls who work there and then maybe i would be forced to not only buy stuff for Her, but to have to try stuff on myself too. i've had these fantasies for many years. So when i read Akasha's stories and Her trainings they really hit home with me, not to mention hit me in the pelvic area also; to know that some of the things that i've dreamed about are actually some peoples reality, is very hot.
-- Edited by satinpantyslave on Wednesday 1st of September 2010 01:40:55 PM
