My girlfriends and I were talking one night about how differently we treat our subs. And I want to know, what really makes you drool. Commanding and bitchy? Stern but loving? Soft but powerful ? Like a mother? A neurotic sponteniety?
first and most importantly, the domme must be confident in herself and her ability to dominate the male. that attitude will make nearly any approach successful. the attributes You mentioned could all be a turn on and any one might be appropriate in a given set of circumstances. but if i had to chose one i think it would be soft and powerful. the softness would draw me in, and the powerful would take control of me. i can imagine such a domme telling me "put on your pink panties and bra sweetie and come over here and kiss my feet..." and after seeing a bit of resistance... "i don't care if you were doing something else just do what i told you sissy and quickly". i can feel myself melting already! what submissive could resist a confident, non-threatening, but firm command?
but as i said, depending on the situation, other approaches could work. if i met a domme in a bar for example, maybe the commanding and bitchy approach would be just the thing to attract me. nothing is simple i guess - but it is always exciting!
What i would find most appealing about a Domme, would be Her ability to take me over using Her Sexual powers. So maybe im sitting on a chair and She walks in front of me wearing Sexy Panties, stops right in front of me. im obviously paying attention now. Once She sees that im now completely focused on Her, She then walks away. As i get up and follow, She tells me to take my clothes off. Which i would do in a heart beat. She gets me into a bed or some place that i think is safe and then She cuffs me, im unaware what She has just done, then all of the sudden She backs away, giggling and laughing. i now struggle to get free and i can't. She then ties me down better and toutures me or makes me do things for Her or whatever it is that makes Her happy. The thing that i like is that i have no defense or control when She walks by in Sexy lingere or whatever it is that turns me on. Once that happens im putty in Her hands. She can then be whatever She wants. She just used Her sexuality to nab me.
So basically when a Woman can use Her sexuality to overpower me that is what i find appealing.
For me I prefer the girl next door look, very feminine, soft spoken, with a natural air of superiority, knowing as a woman (Goddess) she has every right to be worshiped, pampered, spoiled and obeyed as she desires at all times.
But, when dishonored or displeased, she will happily administer a strict session of corporal punishment to correct and teach her male in the art of proper servitude to her.
