My sub and I go to different colleges so were always separated. We spend most of the time over the phone some weeks than we do face to face. So my question, what are some cool phone domination tips?
Here are a few things I like to do with him over the phone:
THE GAME OF NUMBERS- When my sub has been a good boy, we play numbers. This is where I count to ten and he has to jack off until I reach ten. He goes as fast or as slow as I want and Its great getting off to his defiant little moans. If he has to cum before I reach ten, I make him tell me, "Im going to cream my panties." Then we stop. If he has an accident, I make him spank himself while I count (to whatever number I wish). Sometimes he'll be at his desk at work and I'll start counting. I NEVER LET HIM CUM THOUGH. I just tease him. :)
DRESS UP- I made my little cuddle slut a panty drawer last time I came over to his apartment. When Im in the mood i'll tell him to sport his panties and send me sexy little pictures of himself bending over in his little thong.
Those are two of my favorite. What are some of yours?
What if You made a sort of Voodo doll of his penis. There is a product called clone a willy. Then over the phone You can do things to the clone that he must do to himself, maybe he can send You pictures to prove that he has done the thing You told him too.
I have a long distance 'slut' who I talk to regularly, but make "perform" specifically for my when I am craving his submission. I think Skype is amazing for audio + video at the same time - -definitely look into it.
He has a growing arsenal of toys I provided him, so I make him "perform" on command live while I pleasure myself - this is broken down into whatever my moods are at the time.
But when he can't perform live, I have him create photo essays for me, live videos or other things I can view later. These are almost better in some ways because I can watch them over and over, and because I can go back and specifically comment on what parts got me especially wet. This is a good learning tool.
Phones today have cameras installed. The possibilities are limitless. I find out where he is, and demand something that requires humility and makes him suffer - and demand photo proof. This is especially effective if I am out having a good time with my girlfriends (and may share what he sends, if I feel like the added dose of humiliation) -- and he's in pins and needles.
Phones in general though - it really, for me, comes down to voice. If I am going to focus on voice because that's the medium we are in, I want to exploit that. I do things that will inspire the sounds I like, the tone of voice I like. If he's a slut with an accent, I play into that. If he can speak a foreign language, I am motivated to get him to beg - honestly beg - in that language. I want to explore every whimper and moan, and how I can generate that authentically. I make him present his list of toys and level of privacy to me, and then I dig in like I'm having a feast. I play into what makes me MOST wet.
Another tip though - don't forget the poor horny sub on the other end. Even if you are not a very vocal woman when it comes to arousal, be sure to communicate to him how wet and turned on you are. Subs are driven by the desire to please, and need to know that their suffering is turning you on - so don't hold back!!
Akasha
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that is an interesting idea. i hadn't thought a lot about it, but a cell phone would make a very effective 'leash' for a submissive. his Mistress can contact him and shake up his world whenever the whim strikes her, and the camera on modern phones can provide clear proof of his compliance. very exciting
For awhile my wife made me call her everyday at noon and recite our mantra. It had to be at exactly noon. This created some interesting situations. She was especially pleased one day because I had to excuse myself from an important meeting with the President and our most important supplier. She would always end the conversation by reminding me that I was her slave and she could make me do anything.
