The vanilla 'me' is a single, successful corporate alpha male personality. I'm smart and have a healthy, if not over-active, sense of humor, and friends and colleagues have often referred to me as "good husband material". They attribute my single status all of these years as meaning I must be a confirmed bachelor. I have certainly demonstrated a long history of self-indulgence and coupled with my alpha personality, I can see where they might get that impression.
The truth is quite different. D/s has been a 'fantasy' thing for me for as long as I can remember but I've never made it a reality. I guess at some level I was conflicted about who I really am or something to that effect. Well, here I am, after all these years, ready to begin the reality of a Femdom relationship.
Don't get me wrong, I still love vanilla life but the fact of the matter is that I can't enter into a LTR without some Femdom spice.
As a submissive, I admit that I am pretty much a virgin for all intents and purposes. But as I tell my employees, I'd rather hire someone that doesn't have to un-learn bad habits before learning the right way to do things. I'd like to think that same logic applies here.
Please don't interpret my lack of experience as insincerity or uncertainty in regard to the lifestyle. I've been sitting on the sidelines for long enough to know my need is real. I'm a n00b, not a flake, I assure you.
I'm interested in meeting friends, "play partners", and hopefully something long-term and delicious with a dominant wife. If there is a Femdom "scene" in So Cal, I'd looooove to find it. :)
