Me and My Adoring Sub went through similar and still dooooooo. Gosh this takes me back, I have along term boyfriend and we reached a plateau a good few yrs back, a bit bored, a bit frustrated without knowing why, always butting heads, sniping, we were a pretty good fit mostly, especially sexually but even that was getting stale. I realise now that he was giving off signs but I didnt pick up on them, did not join up the dots, damn, missed years because of that. Then one day when I had to use his laptop when mine was misbehaving and saw his history list, all femdom and womens supremacy, uh uh veree intresting. Why he dint tell me I'll never know.
Next time we were arguing I thought right lets prove this bitch, i suddenly said clearly and coldly 'shut the **** up you are annoying me too ****ing much' while staring intently into his eyes, the result was amazing, he collases like a bag of wind, drops his gaze from mine and said 'yes Paula, sorry', I followed up with 'get me a ****ing drink, now!' and blow me down if he didnt trot off to bring me a drink.
That was the turning point, D day, I remember clearly, for the first time I felt actual physical triumph and even more surprising, the beginnings of lust in my stomach and a wetness in my pussy, I knew from then on I would be dominant, little did I know how much I would grow to enjoy it, little did he know how much he would likewise enjoy in his submission to me.
He really is my adoring worshipping bitch now--------wonderful!
Enjoy yourselves
Paula